What to Pack In Your Lifestyle “Go Bag”

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If you’re in the lifestyle, it’s super handy to have a “Go Bag” read. I wanted to share some of the basic items many couples pack up when meeting other lifestylers or attending events.

Overnight Bag

This is also a great personal carryon tote to use – it has a bottom shoe area which you can store an extra pair of comfy shoes. This lightweight and sturdy bag also comes in a variety of colors, in case you’re sick of black bags. (Also, at the end of the night, it seems everyone’s got a black bag – go with the color!)

Hanging Toiletry Bag

If you are headed off for an overnight, or even for a long day, with friends, this hanging toiletry bag can carry your makeup, small bottles of body wash and lotion, condoms, body wipes, and a few more baubles. It’s terrific for carrying both your and your partner’s things.

Condoms

One of the brands recommended to us was Skyn. What you want to look for is non-latex. You never know who is allergic, and it’s best to be prepared with non-latex condoms. Do you have a favorite brand of condoms?

Body Wipes

Chances are, you’ll likely have a place to take a shower or wash up. However, in the off-chance there isn’t a sink around, these body wipes will do in a pinch! We also recommend “universal” face and body wipes like the Cetaphil wipes so you can remove make-up too. Dr. Fischer’s body wipes were made for people who may be bed-bound, so it’ll work for you. Plus Babo was created for babies – and if it’s good enough for babies, it’s good enough for you!

Look at the non-scented wipes if you’d rather put your own fragrance on post-sexy times.

Other items to consider for your “Go Bag”:

• Lube – You may be wet from all the foreplay, but if anyone needs a little oomph, a small bottle of lube can be put in your toiletry bag for emergencies.
• Massage oil – Is touch your love language? Is it your partner’s? Bring a small bottle with you for sensual play.
• Extra undies
• Small washcloth – If you’ve got a bathroom near you, a small washcloth might be better than disposable wipes
• Or a Towel – there may be times where you’d like to cover up or dry down with something bigger
• Toothpaste/toothbrush/mouthwash
• Socks – no one likes cold feet 😉
• Breathmints

The Extras:

• Toys – dildos, vibrators, cock rings, nipple clamps
• Straps – velcro, ties, handcuffs
• Loungewear – nightie, PJ pants, camisole
• Portable bluetooth speaker
• Snacks
• Portable charger
• Candle(s)
• Combination lock – Important if you’re at a club with lockers

What do you bring to your lifestyle (LS) parties and events? Do you bring more or less? Fortunately, most hosted club events have small lockers that your bag can be stowed in.

Chime in in the comments if we’ve missed anything!

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